Shelby Sells

Shelby Sells is a love, sex, and life coach operating out of New York City. Her professional focus includes guiding individuals and couples through explorations of sexuality and relationships. She integrates mindfulness-based approaches to address and dismantle sexual stigma and shame, fostering environments where people can engage with their sexuality openly.

Sells employs a holistic background in Transformational Life Coaching, applying these principles to empower clients in developing authentic relationships. Her work involves promoting healthy, lasting partnerships through intentional dating practices and clear communication. She has contributed to public discourse on these topics, including authoring articles such as “The Big ‘Oh’: How to Have Them, and Keep Them Coming,” which was recognized as a Top Story in February 2022. This piece, created in collaboration with We-Vibe, addressed the complexities of achieving and sustaining orgasm, highlighting the importance of releasing control in intimate settings.

Her career progression includes establishing herself as an expert in sexology, frequently contributing to various media platforms. Sells has conducted interview series exploring modern sexuality, engaging with diverse individuals to shed light on sexual spectrums and related challenges. She emphasizes education and awareness, particularly regarding the biological aspects of sexual pleasure and the importance of self-intimacy, including the use of tools like vibrators for personal exploration. Her public advocacy extends to discussing communication in relationships, recognizing it as fundamental to creating comfortable sexual environments.